A simple question can change your life
/Questions open our thinking. Of course there are many kinds of questions, and asking them can lead to many kinds of outcomes.
Let’s consider a very simple question, and how powerful the impact can be when we use it.
What if...?
“What if?” never fails to be a good question.
It opens your thinking to considering all sorts of possibilities, and it’s wonderful because it does that without making you feel pressured.
Something I especially love is that “What if?” questions also open the door to broad and creative thinking.
Let’s test a great “What if?” question
You can use the “What if?” question in countless ways, and the answers can be revelatory and wide-ranging.
I especially love this particular “What if?” question, and the many ways it can be extended:
What if you trusted?
Ponder that a moment. This is a big question that is worth turning over in your mind.
Next, move on to considering these variations. See what shows up for you.
What if you trusted yourself?
Can you imagine not second-guessing yourself? Can you envision living with trust in yourself and rather than with doubt? What if you could live without fear of making mistakes, or failing?
What if you trusted your heart?
What would your life be like if you connected to the desires in your heart — what you want — and felt deserving of those desires, and honored them? What if you also honored the passions in your heart?
What if you trusted your intuition?
Of course, that begins with hearing intuitive messages. Many of us hear these whispers (and shouts) and push them aside or override them. What would change if you trusted those nuggets of wisdom?
What if you trusted that you can move forward every day, and adjust and course-correct as needed?
This takes us back to the question of trusting yourself, but gets more specific. Can you imagine being focused and intentional, and also flexible and creative when things do not go as you expected, or new obstacles show up?
What if you trusted that you can get the help you need?
Many of us think we need to do everything ourselves. Many of us think that we are the only ones who can do things well enough, or to meet our own high standards. Many of us feel that soldiering on in spite of struggle is noble, or that asking for help is a sign of weakness. Can you imagine trusting yourself to find help, to let go of control, and to allow others to support you?
What if you trusted and believed that you have everything you need inside of you?
Can you believe and trust that you hold the answers you seek, and the ability to learn and grow and expand? Can you believe and trust that you are enough — in fact, that you are already perfect?
You may need some help to trust these ideas, and to believe you have that strength.
Can you imagine how having that trust and belief could be significant for you?
What if you trusted the universe?
I know that for many people this is a harder question, and it may feel a bit far out. I believe that we are all supported by forces much bigger than ourselves. You may call it god, divine spirit, the universe, or any of a number of other terms. Or you may think that the concept is nonsense.
I invite you to consider that we hold energy and there are energetic forces that respond to the positive or negative beliefs we hold energetically. In my experience, we get more back of whatever energy we hold and project.
When we trust that there is a universal energy force supporting us as we trust; supporting us when we believe that we are able to powerfully create in our lives; and supporting us when we believe that we can all bring our gifts and our best selves to approach each moment in our lives with agency, we can experience even greater outcomes and have bigger impacts.
Let’s all choose to trust
The collective power of all of us trusting, of all of us bringing our creative energy into our lives, and all of the good we can bring into the world from this solid foundation, is tremendous.
We can help to make this a better world in remarkable ways.
The first circle of impact we can have is with the people closest to us — our family members, friends, and our coworkers, colleagues and clients.
We also impact our communities — our neighbors and people in organizations we are part of. The impact can expand to our towns and cities and wider circles from there.
We may or may not see tangible evidence of this impact. The ripple effects touch people who touch others, and this is how we are the catalyst for meaningful change.
And that change extends to the broader world.
Goodness knows we need to bring as much positive energy as possible now to being a collective force for good, and for bold action in support of peace and justice and safety for all.
Please join me in the intention to unlock all of our creative power, to trust and tap our inner wisdom, and to bring strength to living our biggest, best lives. Those efforts will have a positive impact on those around us, and the impact will expand exponentially.
I deeply trust the potential of our collective efforts. Thank you for joining me.
Stay safe and well, and create with joy.